I am a traditionalist, weddings included. When you attend such a glorious event, you are usually asked by an usher if you are a friend of the bride or groom. Where does this practice come from, I wondered. Come to find out, centuries ago, thieves would capture the bride to get hold of her dowry. In order to protect her, the groom would have her on his left side so he had access to his sword with his right hand.
Well, when you attend the ceremony, the usher will direct you to the left of the aisle if you know the bride and to the right if you know the groom. My complaint with this arrangement is the guest is unable to see the expression of the bride or groom because the bride or groom has her or his back to said guest. And yes, of course, you don't mind seeing the expression of the other person being wed, but, I for one, want to see the reactions of my loved one. Call me selfish... Anyway, this is American, and if it means that much to me, I think I will be breaking with tradition in the future and sitting on the wrong side. Go ahead call me a rebel. I can take it!
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June 22, 2014
November 21, 2011
Eating with Memories
We began a tradition that everyone can participate in and enjoy. Each year, on the same plain table cloth and with permanent colored markers, each of us draws/writes and dates a sentiment they are thankful for or want to share. Be sure and put newspaper under the tablecloth so the marker doesn't stain your table. Once done, iron the drawings to help set them so they won't run so much in the wash. Yes, some permanent markers will get fuzzy - see mine below. No matter, we can still read it and that's what counts.
While we dine, we study the art and accompanying script surrounding our plates and laugh and remember our times together. Give it a try and make new memories with those you love.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!
Jane Marie
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1882 November
Fernandina, Floria
Miss Ella Dunnigan * writes:
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What a grand idea, Jane Marie! All can join in and draw on the tablecloth, even the little ones. Thank you for sharing. From Dunnigan Manor through time to Stately Malcolm Manor, may we slow our lives and take stock of all God has done for us. Be blessed on Thanksgiving day and every day.
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